Monday, June 05, 2006

Life?

It’s amazing sometimes how the actions of one person can affect another individual. One mistake, one slip up, and you just might destroy the emotional makeup of a person and cause that individual endless pain and suffering. One betrayal can cause years of unhappiness and one slip of the tongue can cause immediate anger.

The thought of it compels me to sometimes withdraw and keep to myself...hoping that I will not be at fault if someone gets hurt. I know the feeling...and it isn't nice. But then I realise...withdrawing from your loved ones will also hurt them, and that isn't nice either.

What is a person to do in situations like these? Does he shut himself away? Or does he be the best person he can be and hope for the best? The answer is of course obvious...but why is it soo hard? Nothing much this time guys....just rambling.

9 comments:

Nabilah said...

The impact an individual have on another varies... Sometimes its alot sometimes none at all.. In situations where one battles with multiple emotions and at the same time balle with being rational its hard... i guess only deep thinking and time will decide...

mediha_m said...

I've always believed in the saying that 'one is in control of one's own emotions, and not others'.

Sometimes, we can try and guess how the other person would react or feel to what we do or what we say... We can guess, but we can never hope to control it.

Just do what YOU feel is right. Works most of the time :)

Melorina said...

Oh my gosh.... After a loong absence from blogging you make a comeback with a very 'emotional' scribblings : )...

Oh, well. You can't actually live if you try to withdraw from the society esp your loved ones. It would be a pathetic existence (at least to my thinking).

You might not get hurt. However eventually people will distance themselves from you. You won't get to experience the love that they have to offer.

Afifah said...

the circle of life..some might say.

For every action, there's a reaction

Fareez said...

melor
dei...what's with the "emotional" labelling hah? its NOT emotional ok...its just some stuff playing in my head thats all...you making me sound gay :-)

Maverix
good advice diha..thanks

afifah
sometimes there is no reaction at all. and then what??

Only Kye said...

and then you shoot your classmates. then you shoot yourself. then your family get rights to the movie version of your life on dvd.

Fareez said...

true :-)

Anonymous said...

ehm!......


"then your family get rights to the movie version of your life on dvd."

that will be nice though! ;-)

Anonymous said...

there's one little trick tho,
try apologies...always works! ( in terms of reversing the supposedly emotional impact on others)

P/s= wah cool-la ur blog!if i ever wrote anything this sort, my friends wouldnt read them, too heavy.